
Helping Teens Find Their Media Balance: A Free Circle Session
If you work with teenagers, you've probably seen firsthand the anxiety, the comparisons, and the phone that never turns off without a prompt or rule being set. Social media is reshaping how young people see themselves, each other, and the world.
Here’s the deal: as much as we may have good intentions, lectures about screen time don't work! What does work is giving teens a structured space to reflect on their own relationship with technology — first, what they love about it, and then what might not be so great — and letting them make their own choices about it.
What's Inside
Session Two of OCF's Empowerment and Identity on Social Media activity guide, "Finding My Media Balance," is a complete, ready-to-run Girls Circle session for ages 11–18, though easily adaptable for all genders. It includes:
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A Screen Time Usage Discussion that invites youth to look at their own data without judgment
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A Pros and Cons exploration of life in virtual communities — allowing them space to explore the real benefits before considering the real downsides
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Challenge Cards with 25+ non-media activity options that participants can choose from and commit to
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A "My Media Plan for a Perfect Day" handout that helps each participant build their own balanced vision of life, both online and offline
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Reflection questions to draw their experience from the Circle into their own lives
The Circle participants leave with a personal plan they've created themselves — signed, photographed, and placed somewhere they'll actually see it.
Why It Works
OCF Circle models don't have adults telling teens what to do — nobody likes or responds well to that, especially teens. Circles create the conditions for teens to figure it out for themselves — with a supportive peer community, a skilled adult facilitator creating a safe container, and evidence-informed programming. That is what makes outcomes stick.
Get the Free Session
Ready to try it? Download Session Two: Finding My Media Balance — free
Want the full 10-session guide? Empowerment and Identity on Social Media takes girls and gender expansive youth through identity, self-worth, online relationships, and more — all through the Girls Circle model.
Save by investing in a curated set of curricula. This activity guide is included in the One Circle Set, Girls Circle Complete Set, The Middle School Set, The High School Set, and The Resiliency Set.






